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Holy ****

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Miles D, Sep 5, 2008.

  1. Miles D

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    I was just cuddling with a new friend, who is a lesbian, in her bed, with no one around. [Last night I slept in her bed, but nothing happened, besides innocent cuddling.]

    But today, just a little while ago, she started rubbing my belly and tickling me, not sexual really, but then she started jokingly licking my face, and then she almost licked my mouth, and we were pretty much all over each other (NOT kissing, just on top of each other) and then she starting rubbing my face and mouth with the back of her hand, and I though she was going to kiss me, but she didn't. (This went on for 90 minutes)

    Then her roommate and a friend came in. It was ok, we just started talking to them, but they sorta thought we had something going on so they left. Our faces were right next to each other, and she is really pretty, but nothing happened.

    I really think she was going to kiss me (I've never been kissed) but I got freaked so I left. I just stood up and was like "Umm... I have... umm... stuff to do..." I know, I'm stupid.

    And I'm meeting her to watch "Hedwig and the Angry Inch" in 20 minutes (w/ a group of people) and I don't know if she likes me or not! I mean, I'm "he" but also biologically female... and she's a lesbian.

    :help:

    please
     
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    "I am what I am" , Says Popeye. Go with the flow.
     
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    What did you want to happen?

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    Go with what you want. If it feels wrong, stop. Otherwise, go with it!
     
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    Aah... I really don't know what I wanted to happen, but when I saw her a little while ago she was on her way to get stoned, so I just said I'd see her later.
    But I think I'm going to try to spend the night with her again but not do anything "kissie" =)
     
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    Does that mean you don't want anything to happen? That's cool if you don't, but if you do, feel free to nudge her along. :slight_smile:

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    Well even if I did want something to happen, I couldn't very well do it tonite while her roommate is there, in the same room! :roflmao:
     
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    Tell roomie to take a hike - mdc wants some lovin'. :grin:

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    Agreed, ahaha.
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    haha... actually... umm... no... I think that would be awkward, and... well, eh.
     
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    I know - thus the grinny face. :slight_smile: Hope things keep going well for you.

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