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Yay for me!...?

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by finding_out, Apr 23, 2007.

  1. finding_out

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    Well I just want to tell somebody how happy I am that I finally said something. I finally told someone besides the internet that I'm bi. Yay. :icon_bigg We were in gym, and this girl who is a widely know lesbian, came up and asked my friend if she knew any girls that were avaible. She had said no, but the conversation stayed on that topic. After they noticed that I had been contributing to the conversation for a while they asked me: "Are you lesbian?" I simply responded that I was bi. I was so happy, but it seemed so easy. I think it just might have been because I was with a group of lesbians that they were so accepting. It felt so good. So now I face telling all of my other friends. One step at a time. But I definately feel a lot better. I was feeling guilty all year everytime I saw some of the girls I liked in the locker room, and they didn't know I was staring at them for that reason. I don't know how it relates, but I feel so much better,and slightly less guilty. :eusa_danc
    ~Jesse
     
  2. Sam

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    congrats! it gets easier and easier the more you do it. I'm happy for you!
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    Congratulations! That's very good to hear! I'll be coming out to my first "real life" person soon, so I'll know how that feels shortly! ^^ I'm guessing that you were really nervous before you did it, too? Or was it so spur of the moment that you didn't really notice?
     
  4. finding_out

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    Thanks so much! I didn't really notice when I did it, it was just so sudden. As soon as I did though, I was so scared I almost started sweating. I was worried someone else had heard, or mabye they would think I was creepy for some reason. But trust me, I feel so much better now, and so much happier with my self. Be sure to tell me when you come out to some one okay? I can't wait to hear from you! :grin:
    ~Jesse
     
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    Bravo and congratulations!

    And Steam Giant, we'll be keeping an eye open for your story as well!
     
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    That's awsesome. See.. this is my first post here and I post in your thread first. You should feel honored. :thumbsup:
     
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    Congratulations Jesse!
     
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    good job, one more winner[​IMG]
     
  9. finding_out

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    Oh, I am vey honored. Thanks all. I think I like gym class now. :grin:
     
  10. finding_out

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    I just got back from school today, and told two of my other trusted friends. I feel so acomplished. You were right, it does get easier the more you do it. I didn't expect my friends to be so accepting, But I'm so glad they were. The next hurtle... my family. -_- Mabye in a couple of... years. :grin:
    ~Jesse
     
  11. lol its good that you have a few supportive people