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Coming out before asking out?

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Black Swan, Aug 19, 2014.

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  1. Black Swan

    Black Swan
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    I want to ask a girl out. Do I have to come out to her, or can I just ask her out? I'm 99% sure she's gay, she has no idea I am.
     
    #1 Black Swan, Aug 19, 2014
  2. maselalala

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    From my experience in dating, it's a BIG TURN ON if a guy is openly gay..... Or bisexual?
     
    #2 maselalala, Aug 19, 2014
  3. Edra

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    Then ask asking will be the coming out but tbh it may be wise to wait for some one else to offer a suggestion.
     
    #3 Edra, Aug 19, 2014
  4. TabletopFan

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    Yeah, I'd come out to her first, and express your interest in her after. Good luck! :wink:
     
    #4 TabletopFan, Aug 19, 2014
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