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So I did it...

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Young Blood, Aug 21, 2014.

  1. Young Blood

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    I came out to my stepmom...and I shouldn't have :frowning2: :tears:
     
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    What happened?
     
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    She didn't believe me and thinks that I am just confused and that it's all because I've had a traumatic childhood and all this other shit. She yelled at me as well. I've literally been crying for an hour :tears: :tears: :tears:
     
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    That's awful of her to judge you like that. EC is here for you, and so am I. She'll hopefully come to terms with it soon, it was probably a big shock. And you're too beautiful to be crying :slight_smile:. She shouldn't have yelled - if she has any decency she'll accept you, and if she doesn't then she doesn't deserve your time. I know it's hard :frowning2: We're here for you.
     
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    Yeah maybe it was a bit of a shock for her...it was still super awkward and embarrassing to talk about and then with her yelling at me didn't help :frowning2:

    Thank you so much though (*hug*) I really needed to hear that right now.
     
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    I'm so sorry :frowning2:. I wish your stepmom were nicer to you. I hope that everything turns out for the better. You deserve it.
     
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    Thanks...I hope so too. I just really needed people to talk to.
     
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    I'm sorry :frowning2:
    I hope she accepts it eventually
     
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    It's fine (*hug*) Just know that you were very brave to have the courage to come out, and her reaction wasn't in any way your fault. If you do need to talk, I'm here. We all are.
     
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    I'm sorry that happened to you. If you ever need anyone to talk to, you can always leave a message on my wall. I hope things get better soon. :slight_smile:
     
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    Young Blood, what you did was totally brave and awesome:eusa_danc:eusa_clap:thumbsup:. your step mom's reaction is hers and her problem.

    you are awesome(*hug*)
     
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    Thank you guys so much...can't tell you how much I appreciate this. I don't know what I would have done without you guys :tears: :slight_smile:(*hug*)
     
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    I'm so sad that happened to you YB. I am also really proud of your courage. Good luck!
     
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    Well I'm out to my brother but not parents.

    So you're a step ahead of me there sista.
     
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    I'm sorry. I hope she comes around. (*hug*)

    You're strong, and you know it. Don't let her cut you down!
     
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    I'm sorry that happened. You're a wonderful person and I am sure she will come to her senses. (*hug*)