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I'm a lesbian who is married to a man

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by ordinaryangel, Aug 24, 2014.

  1. ordinaryangel

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    I'm seeing a therapist and working on ending my marriage so I can truly be myself and be a lesbian. I'm in my 30s and looking for advice from someone who has been in my shoes
     
  2. Islandof1

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    I know exactly where you are coming from I am 32 and I have been married 3 times to men to hide the truth I'm a lesbian too. Ending a marriage sucks but being your self and honest with your self is so important. I'm proud of you for doing what needs to be done, it wont be easy but at least you will be able to be you. Good luck! If you want to be friends I'm cool with that!
     
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    Thank you Really!
     
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    Hi there, I'm in your shoes so know just what you're going through. You're not alone and you will find some wonderfully supportive people on here x
     
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    You aren't alone.
     
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    Hey my mum went through this :slight_smile: I'm so proud of her for admitting the truth even if it was the hardest thing to do, & I'm proud of you too :slight_smile: it's going to be hard but I know you can get through this! Stay strong and remember to be true to yourself. You are not alone x