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Am I gay/bi

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Qaz, Aug 25, 2014.

  1. Qaz

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    I am a teen and I like a few girls in my class.
    But recently I am having feelings about a guy.
    I am not sure if I am gay/bi and would like some help.

    Thanks!!!
     
  2. BananaB

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    If you find yourself attracted to both, you may be bisexual. I wouldn't rush to any conclusions though, take it slowly and see how you feel.

    By the way - welcome! :grin:
     
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    tkae your time dude haha. you got plenty of time to figure out your sexuality. it sounds like you're still experimenting, so don't be scared to take chances. just see where it goes and see how you feel about the outcome
     
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    This is totally something you should take the the time to think about but I would like to let you know that there are varying degrees of bisexuality. So you can be more attracted to girls than guys but still like both or vise versa. Just something to think about.
     
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    yes, do take your time. This is not something that you can figure out in a day.

    Coming from my perspective, I've had crushes on girls before but never really had a desire to do anything with them, such as kiss. I had my few crushes but that was because I liked their personality and was close friends with them, so I kind of forced myself to think that I could, potentially, date whoever since I knew that I had to end up with a girl at some point...but then, one night, I had a dream that I had a boyfriend and the rest is history. After lots of life reflection, I realized that I have never been attracted to girls but have, instead, been attracted to men...I was just in serious denial.
     
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    Which genders are you sexually attracted to?
     
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    It is sure possible that you might be. If.you want to to about it feel free to send me a message.
     
  9. Anonymous777

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    Definitely, you should take your time to figure out your sexuality.

    Additionally, don't be afraid of being gay or bi, though I think you aren't. You're still so young and it's normal you're confused. I recommend also that you're honest with yourself.

    And by the way, welcome! :slight_smile: