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My Mom Found out and Now Won't Except it.

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by LovesMyArmyGirl, Sep 4, 2014.

  1. LovesMyArmyGirl

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    So Around easter this last spring (northern Michigan, United States) I walked into my room and found my mother going through my phone. It normally wouldn't be a big deal, but i had been exchanging texts with my Girlfriend of about 3 weeks at the time. They were not sexual in anyway, but at the same time it was pretty obvious that we were more then friends in them. She then confronted me about it right there in my room, throwing questions and comments like they were the same thing. It's been almost 4 months since then and she still won't even consider that we are together. I know it takes time, but it's still annoying when she asks me why I'm holding hands with my Girlfriend, or the likes. I just wanted to get that off my chest. Thanks for listening, if you have any advice let me know.
     
  2. lovely lesbian

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    Hello! I'm sorry about your mum maybe she just needs time
     
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    Hey! Sorry for that, but i hope it will get better with time. Probably will.
     
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    In time she will come around. Otherwise maybe don't bring up the topic for awhile.
     
  5. LovesMyArmyGirl

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    Thanks for the feedback everyone.
     
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    hang in there that's all ya can do really. you're strong and sometimes we do just need to wait and give them time. I've been waiting two years now for my parents to accept me and heck, I'll wait my whole life cuz I'm not giving up my relationship with them just because they think being gay is wrong. You got this! All the best to you
     
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    Hang in there she'll come around