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I was SO close to telling.

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Wolfiee, Sep 8, 2014.

  1. Wolfiee

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    So today my friend and I decided to talk about our problems, I vented about my depression and anxiety and she vented about her depression. Along the line of talking to her she said,

    "I need a boyfriend. We both need boyfriends, we should get you a boyfriend."

    I shook my head and she asked "do you just want to be single?" so I said yes and to ease the tension I joked about it a little. Later on she asked if I liked anyone at the moment and I said no because "I can't be bothered with boys." Which was a slight hint I dropped which she didn't quite catch. I wished I told her, but the words just didn't come out. She's a good friend of mine and I want to be honest with her as well as my other friends, but it's so difficult. :tears:
     
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    Easy, don't be so hard on yourself. (*hug*) This stuff takes time and you'll have a moment where it'll just happen. After that you'll look back and wonder why it was so hard, but for I think for now you should be easy on yourself.
     
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    "I can't be bothered with boys."

    It's a brave thing to say that! You should be really proud right now! (*hug*) Perhaps you will tell her more next time. But for now, congratulations! :icon_bigg
     
  4. Wolfiee

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    My friend today was talking about my friend who came out and told me that she's still against homosexuality which really put me off from telling her. I have plenty of other people to tell, but I trust her with a lot of personal things. -_-