I have lived practically my entire life as a straight man, I have been married over 30 years with two children (a girl now 34 and a boy who lives with me, 29). Shortly after I divorced, I had a relationship with a woman; this lasted some 5 years until we broke off. For two years I have been completely alone, until some 3 months ago when I met a man I contacted with a Facebook. It was like love at first sight, however questionable this might seem, and started to enjoy intimate meetings immediately. He had a relationship with another man that lasted some 13 years, and at the time we started to meet they were living together; they split off some time afterwards. At the same time, I started my "coming out" process; I told my kids separately of my new relationship, and - up to now - to a friend. However, many difficulties arise during this new stance in my life - I find my new love is a true box of surprises I would like to explain, if possible - and I would appreciate any helping guidelines very much.
