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Telling a friend.

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by OutlawTorn, Sep 11, 2014.

  1. OutlawTorn

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    This weekend me and a close friend that I've known for years are going out and I'd like to come out to her. She's openly bisexual and super accepting so I know there will be no issues of that kind. She has asked me if I'm gay before but I hadn't accepted it myself so I denied it, I imagine it won't be a shock to her. I just wondered how to tell her. Shall I bring it up in conversation casually, have a serious talk or just blatantly say 'I'm gay!'
    Thanks in advance. :icon_bigg
     
  2. RedFireFly

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    You can start by asking her who she's in love with, and she'll probably ask the same back... Then you can either say the name, or that it's a girl... Or if you're not in love with anyone at the moment, just tell her that you "haven't found the perfect girl yet"

    Good luck!
     
  3. OutlawTorn

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    Nice idea, I'll give it a try. Thanks!