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Coming out and coming to terms

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by StephG, Sep 22, 2014.

  1. StephG

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    Location:
    Beijing
    Gender:
    Male (trans*)
    Sexual Orientation:
    Bisexual
    Out Status:
    Not out at all
    I am slowly coming out to people I feel comfortable with. It started with a couple of close friends. Having someone I could talk to about this was such a relief. As I slowly make these steps I am finding that I begin to openly think about what I want and like.

    It certainly doesn't seem like anything from a fantasy, but it does feel like there is this "slutty" side to me. Is that normal? Understandable? Something I should make sure to keep under control?

    Those are the questions I keep running through my mind.
     
  2. FancyGummy

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    Understandable. Same thing happened to me not too long ago... It's exiting! Everyone fantasizes, unless you're not sure what to fantasize about... but now you do, so now you are fantasizing. A whole lot. I'd start to worry about it if it lasted for more than a few months...