Why does these weird drama love thigns always happen to me?! DAMMIT! Okay so heres the deal: My brother added this girl on msn, and i was reading over his shoulder and just bugging him, cause it was obvious that he liked her. So to annoy him i added her to msn, and we started talking after he left. Turns out, shes bi. Turns out, in the span of like twenty minutes she became attracted to me. Now i feel super guilty, cause i know my bro likes her, she likes me, and i dont want to hurt her feelings by saying, dont talk to me cause my bro likes you, bla bla bla... I really dont know what to do. :/
i'd tell her that your brother likes her, so you don't know what to do. maybe ask if she can talk to him about it. i wouldn't ignore her, and i wouldn't tell your brother. the ball's in her park now.
Hey, at least you have love stuff going on... Did she come right out and say "I like you" or was it a hinty thing, if it's a hinty thing, I would ignore it (unless you like her back, wait, I'd still ignore it...) and pass on to her that your brother likes her. If she said "I like you" then I have no idea what you'd do, but after only 20 minutes, I think that's unlikely...
I told her my bro likes her, and her basic was response was like, oh we just will keep it a secret :/ ANd i do likeher, and she did flat-out say she liked me so i dont know keeping it all a secret is any better...
Does your brother know this girl in person, or just on msn? Does your brother know that you are gay? Because if not, well, talking to him about her and you would be a pretty involved conversation. Also, does he know that she is bi? This is a sticky situation. I think maybe you should find out how much your brother is into her.
Like Noah said... she said that she liked you? Within 20 minutes? Problem there... Big big big problem... You say that you like her? Hmm... I'd be wary about that. I think it's more of excited curiosity.. I met this guy before who, after a few MSN conversations, told me that he loved me. We met once, I did something incredible stupid (no insertion anywhere, in case you were wondering), and I never talked to him again. Stupidest thing was, I wasn't even attracted to him and wanted to try things out. Experimentation. Makes one wanna blush and hide in holes at times...
I blocked her. I spoke to my bro last night and as soon as he got online to talk to her, she was spilling her guts to him about how she loved him. Im under the impression that shes trying to have us both, and i will not be played like that so I'm not going to talk to her anymore. Thanks guys for all the advice!!
