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Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by jason1111, Sep 23, 2008.

  1. jason1111

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    Hey, I found a number to call about support but I'm kind of hesitant to call I'm not sure what to expect. What are the experiences people have had.
     
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    Unless people have called that specific number, their experiences may not be much of a reflection.

    What do you have to lose?!? Just call and talk to someone if that's what you think you need.
     
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    Hey Jim, we're the same age so I really admire your advice.
     
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    What sort of support are you looking for? Just someone to talk to who may be versed in whatever it is you're going through? Then they're probably worth calling. Expect help, but don't expect a cure. :slight_smile:

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    No I'm not looking for a cure just some people to talk to in person, I don't have any friends, well I do but I don't hang with them they are all straight.
     
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    Then, sure, call 'em up. Perhaps they've got a support group you can join.

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    Give them a ring :slight_smile: You've got nothing to lose from it. You'll find the conversation will probably flow around what's best for you and you should feel quite comfortable after a minute or so. There's no harm in giving it a go, anyway.
     
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    just my personal experience, but I called a hotline every day after school for about two weeks, and it was always busy!
    but i agree... go for it!
     
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    I called them they have something to do with the college here, I'm beyond my college years so I don't know. It's just me and EC for now.
     
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    Did you ask if they could refer you to another hotline or group that would be closer to your age?
     
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    Yeah, they should be able to link you to a group that's outside the school.

    Or, feel free to do a google search for a gay support group in your area.

    Lex