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My plan for coming out as bigendered.

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by person57, Oct 5, 2014.

  1. person57

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    I decided that I want to come out to my parents as bigendered by the end of the year (November or December). However, I honestly don't want to do it face to face. I want to send my parents a voice message when I'm away. I'm hoping I will get to do it at my best friend's house. After I come out to my parents, I want to come out to everyone else by making a huge Facebook post, with two pictures. One of them will be me dressing up as a male and the other one will be me dressing up as a female.
     
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    Hey, I decided that I will do a letter instead. I already wrote it and I plan to send it anytime from next week to the end of the year. Here it is.

    Hey, mom and dad. There is something I need to tell you that I have been thinking about for a while. I'm bigendered. I'm not sure if you know what means, so I'll explain it to you. Bigender describes someone who identifies as both genders and is a subset of the transgender group. Bigendered people tend to move betweem masculine and feminine type behaviors. In other words, some days I'll feel like being a female and other days I'll feel like being a male. You know what transgender means, right? Well, bigender is kind of like that except I identify as both genders, not just the opposite. I'm sure you guys will be accepting and supportive of this. I love you!! :slight_smile:

    What do you think?
     
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    I assume you mean, "some days I'll feel like being a male and other days I'll feel like being a female"?
     
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    Oops..yep, that's what I mean! Thanks for pointing that out.
     
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    I think it's good. Simple and short, straight to the point. :slight_smile:
     
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    The fact that I'm coming out in three days is crazy and pretty scary, but I know I can do it!