Well as said in my welcome post I have this huge crush on a guy. But I am not to sure how to approach him. I mean do I ask if he is gay, bi, or straight? becuase I am scared he'll ask me why. See I am only out with some friends and two family members. I am affraid he'll find out some how and tell the whole school! what should I do for my first boy crush?
Are you already friends with this guy? From your post I get the impression that's not the case, so I'll go with that! Approach him as you would a new friend, get to know him and let him get to know you. You'll be able to get a better idea as to his sexual orientation and whether or not he's interested in you that way. And hey, if it turns out he's not gay and/or not interested in a relationship then you could still make an awesome friend! Best of luck
I agree! It would be very awkward asking him about his sexual orientation if you are not first friends with him.
Agreed. If you're dealing with an unknown, your best move is to treat him like a friend until you know (not suspect - know) that he's on your team. Lex
Yeah. Point taken I guess that would be awkword. I will bump this thread when I do get his reaspect and stuff. Well, we kinda do all ready but not fully friendship. lets say I am on the outer circle of the friendship.
My ex-bf said that he knew someone that liked me and that he would need to know if I was into guys before he could tell me who. I told him and had a bf... for like 2 weeks. Lol. Anyway! Maybe you could do that. I never suspected he was bi;; but then again I'm wicked clueless. x D
