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does he want to be more than friends?

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by mikeh, Sep 26, 2008.

  1. mikeh

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    I need some opinions on this, I'm not sure what to think...

    I was at a LGBT social gathering, and a guy came and sat next to me, started talking. After about 10 minutes he gave me his number, and I did the same. He asked if I was seeing anyone, and he suggested we do something on the weekend. We talked for over an hour, on just about everything. By the end, he was giving me hugs. Now we have plans to get together and hang out.

    For some reason I'm not sure if he's just really friendly, or if I'm right in thinking he might like to be more than just friends. I wouldn't mind either, but I hate to assume anything. I guess the best thing would be to ask directly, though I would hate to make things awkward.

    If he does want to be more than friends, this has to be a new record, as it happened within the first 5 minutes of me being "out" in public :icon_wink

    What to do?
     
  2. EthanS

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    Yeah i think he likes u , if u like him u shuold go for it :], btw what do u do a gatherings? I might go ..
     
  3. Miles D

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    He's totally into you :grin:
    You should ask him out!
     
  4. JurrBurr

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    You won't know for sure, if you don't ask.
     
  5. cm25

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    he Wants You!!!!
     
  6. ColbieMarie

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    In my (not so expert) opinion, he likes you.
     
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    wat
     
  8. mikeh

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    Thanks for the replies, I just wasn't sure... never had anyone just come up and start talking like that! Well, I'll see what happens today.

    The ones we have are just a dozen people getting together to chat, have some coffee and cookies, etc.
     
  9. mikeh

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    Just a quick update (if anyone cares...)

    I really must be dense--after spending the day together, we went out to a nice bistro for dinner, then went back to his place to watch some movies. Before leaving I asked him about being more than friends, and got a resounding "yes" followed by much laughing from both of us :icon_bigg

    We have made plans for the new few weeks, problem is we have trouble finding enough time to get together. Suppose there could be worse problems :icon_wink
     
  10. Defender

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    omg yay! I couldn't help but smile when I read that :grin:
     
  11. ColbieMarie

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    That makes me so happy.

    (I love living my life vicariously through other people.)