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Parents don't want me to come out as bigendered

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by person57, Oct 21, 2014.

  1. person57

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    They're protective and they're afraid that I'm going to get physically hurt. I guess it's understandable, but I don't think it would happen to me where I live. On Sunday, I was at my friends house and I wore female clothes for the first time, which felt so amazing. I told my parents about this, and when I got home my parents gave me a talk and they said that I can't go out wearing girl clothes because I can get hurt. This kinda sucks, but oh well :\ At least I cam come out to everyone else when I'm financially independent.
     
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    Well that sucks that they are being that way , however as a parent I do understand where they are coming from. It is just that they are trying to keep you safe because they love you ! I think that it great that you like wearing those types of clothes :slight_smile: . One last thing yes after you get out on your own you can do what you want lol so good luck my friend :slight_smile:
     
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    I guess the positive here is that it's out of fear for your safety, not 'ugh it's morally perverted!'

    Can you arrange that while you're perfecting the look/not on hormones, if you're in girl clothes, you're with a group of friends?
     
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    I am sorry to hear this, I think being only 15, it does seem like your parents are only interested in your well being and making sure you are okay.. I guess it does suck when you are that young and don't have much of a say in certain things.. But think it's only three years till you are 18 and then you can do what you want.