First thing first I'm 16 and I have been questioning my sexuality since 14 sometime when I was 15 I decided I was pan-sexual and so since then I have told my friends, my classmates, my boyfriend, my therapist, and my psychiatrist. I have approached the subject about not being straight with my parents before and they think its wrong and anyone who is is going to hell I asked how they would react if I wasnt straight and they said they would still love me but that I'm going to hell. My step-dad has been there for me since I was two he is more than just a step-dad to me, he's my dad and it hurts because he's very homophobic along with my step-brother the rest of my family are borderline homophobic. Around the same time I started questioning my faith as a Christian, I no longer have a religion and my parents know and force me to go to church. I'm afraid of how they will react to me being pan-sexual and have absolutely no idea how to tell them and I dont really want to tell them but I know I will have to eventually. :help: :tears: (&&&)
You need to be sure you're safe when you tell them. You may well be right that you have to tell them eventually (e.g. maintaining integrity when you're dating a girl), but eventually is not right now. I'm really sorry that people that mean so much to you can't or won't accept you for who you are, that's really horrid.
