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I came out for the first time!

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Different, Nov 14, 2014.

  1. Different

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    Wow. What a night. I just came out to one of my teammates. She came into my dorm room and we were just talking and I brought up relationships. I asked her if she had anyone special and she just said ummmm for a very long time. I said I think I already knew and she confirmed my guess. She asked how I knew she was dating a girl and I told her my gaydar was pretty good. She asked why it was so good and then asked if I was gay. It took me a second but I said yes. I SAID YES! I DID IT GUYS. Wow. It feels amazing and terrifying at the same time. I put my full confidence in my teammate and I feel on top of the world right now. I want to take this slowly but hopefully I'll have the initiative to tell my other teammates sooner or later. I feel a weight off my shoulders. I cannot believe it. Today 11/14/14 I actually told someone else. SO HAPPY I HAD TO SHARE! (!)
     
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    that is awesome I am so happy for you!! I am so glad that you had a positive coming out !
     
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    Congrats! It's an amazing feeling, isn't it!?! (!):eusa_clap(!)(!)(!)(!)
     
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    Congratz, I'm so proud to hear anyone say they came out. I'm glad to hear it :slight_smile:
     
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    Congratulations!ยก! (!)
     
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    Congrats !!!! I regret my first coming out tbh e_e
     
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    Awesome! :slight_smile: It sounds like she was nervous about telling you, too! I'm glad you both decided to open up, it looks like it worked out really well. Congratulations!
     
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    Aw yes, congrats!! :slight_smile: :slight_smile:
     
  9. beyourself

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    That is great. I am very happy for you (!):wow:
     
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    very cool' good for you