come out to a friend of mine at school, thing is, I want to do it when I'm alone with him, because I want it to mean something, y'know? I have a slight crush, but nothing too big, I think. Also, i kinda think he might be also....his older brother has told me that he thinks that he is gay also, and well, i'm not gonna lie, he does show it off very slightly....i don't know, if by some chance he is actually gay, I'd like to help him in any way possible.
Personally, I would have loved to have had someone to discuss things over with about my sexuality when I was younger. I think its really cool that you want to help him, if he is in fact struggling with his sexuality. If you think that he would be accepting of you being gay, then I'd say go for it and if he isn't gay/bi, then at least you have another person who knows you a little better. Hope this helps
Go for it if you believe that he will respond well, now I have to get enough courage to tell my best friend who,unlike lucky you, I have a HUGE crush on. Good Luck (*hug*)
Haha, we all think my friend of 13 years is gay. We used to be best friends but we're not anymore, we're still good friends though. He is so effeminate. If you had to pick one of us to be gay 99 out of 100 people would pick him. But I'm just sitting here hoping he isn't, I would never want a relationship with him or people to even make that connection/assumption. Eeeew.
That is great news.Having the support of a best friend is often huge when faced with the challenge of telling other people.
Ok, it was after a school rally, and he was waiting for some kind of sports practice right after, but he was alone, so i offered to stay with him for a bit. Then, I sat him down, and i said.." I'm kinda gay"... it was soo cute! he gave me this look of "aww" he said he was shocked that i told him, because he never thought I thought of him as a real friend. YES! I think he's straight, though. I guess some part inside of me wished he was gay. oh well.
