So there has been this kid at school who I've seen a lot, and I have been attracted to him. He acts gay sometimes, but I wasn't totally sure. Well my friend and him are close, and she just told me that he came out. And he is attracted to me! He said he wanted to go to the dance with me! But the thing is, I dont know what to do. I am interested in him, but I've never gone for someone before. Should I just go talk to him? We haven't spoken before, and how would I start a conversation? Another thing is that he is a freshman and I am a junior. Is he too young for me? I didn't think so, but some people think that it would be wierd. I have the whole weekend and monday to think about what to do, and I don't know. Tell me what you all think.
Wait... he's a freshman and your a junior. Well you just officially destroyed any understand I had of the american skool system :/ Oh, talk him lol Tell him you're nervous and dunno what to do etc, no harm can come from it.
Gumtree, think a year 9 and a year 11. Lacri - I say go for it, I think there's nothing wrong with that age and year level gap (I mean, why would I? I'm a year 10 who dotes over a year 7!) Start a conversation with him - be flirtatious, but not overly so. Just kind of get to know him, ask who he's taking to the dance.... and see where it takes you.
awww i say go for it... and post ALL the details.. for those of us without a love life, i live vicariously through EC
Ok I'll definetley try to talk to him. Yesterday my friend brought him over to me to introduce me to him. Neither of us were expecting her to do that, and I think he was a little embarressed, but it was my first time talkting to him! So yeah I'll post the details of today's work.
I don't know if I'd ask him out if you've never talked to him. At least not yet. But do strike up a conversation with him. "Hi, I'm Lacri. (friend) told me you came out recently, and that's really great. I remember how hard it was for me to do that, too." And away you go. Lex
Actually that sounds like a good idea. I was thinking of maybe talking to him about coming out today...
