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Finally came out to my mother!

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Poroyl, Dec 2, 2014.

  1. Poroyl

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    As the title suggests, l finally came out to my mother. And l cried. :tears:
    I knew she would accept me but l still was so scared and felt so vurnerable. I told her l wanted to talk and she could from the start tell it was something serious.
    It took a while for me to spit it out but finally l could say those words. It felt so surrealistic. She said she accepted me fully and loved me for the one l am. After that l received a hug, and was so relieved. (*hug*)
    As l am writing this she is telling it to my twin brother, which l said she could do if she wanted. It feels so great but l think l'm gonna cry a lot. :tears:

    ---------- Post added 2nd Dec 2014 at 10:12 PM ----------

    Sorry if l took your time l just wanted to write myself of.
     
  2. RainbowCranes

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    Aww, well I hope you feel like a big weight has been lifted. It certainly is anxiety inducing, but it really makes things less stressful. Hope you have just as much acceptance with others!
     
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    Congratulations! Well done! :grin:
     
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    Glad to hear that, that was my situation also
     
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    That is so wonderful. :slight_smile:
     
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    Congrats !! I am so proud of you .
     
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    Awwww!! Well done and congrats, that took a lot of courage and you should be pleased! :3
     
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    Well done congrats! So very happy for you!!!:slight_smile:
     
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    Congrats!
     
  10. Poroyl

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    Thank you all! (*hug*)
    I've been looking around on this site for a while, and l can honestly say it gave me some of my courage. Like l already knew my brother was too very accepting. A short time afterwards everything felt so unreal and meaningless, l don't really know why. :icon_conf But soon my normal life resumed. :starwars:
     
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    Congratulations! This is a big step in your life and you should be proud of it.

    Best wishes,
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    That's awesome congratulations. :slight_smile: