I just want to die. I am so sick of this

I think some of the straight men who come to bar like groups are just pigs, not saying all of them are just saying that it tends to attract the lonely and desperate types more than other places.

My Mom works selling alcohol and she gets this from guys too, and she's straight and married! But the guys just ask her "Are you sure you love your husband?" and "Does he fuck you right?" It's gross.

Don't let horrible people make you feel guilty of your sexuality. Chances are they'd still be slimeballs regardless of how you identify.

 

Really hope you find that special someone Chloe....you'd deserve her <3

 

COURAGE. I believe that you can make it and you will find someone soon...or I could tell Satan himself to come for the pigs that you are dealing with. Your choice.

[please don't get offended by my use of the word Satan. It was a joke, I am not a devil worshipper. Don't come for me 'o religious ones.]

 

Totally feel you on this. I'm taller than most women my age. I easily pass as an 18 to 20 year old, which makes a lot of 30+ year old men think they can get some. I remember riding my bike to a mall in Atlanta and I was soaked in sweat. As I stopped for traffic, some creepy, dirty looking, older dude in a old truck started giving me a pervy look. Good thing he didn't get out of the truck; I wouldn't have thought twice about running over his ass with my bicycle. I recently moved to a puny town in the middle of fucking NOWHERE, and everyone here is a fundamentalist Christian AND raging homophobe, to the point where if any of them found out I was an agnostic or lesbian, I'd have register a gun and fear for my life. Everything bad I ever said about Atlanta, I take it back! I'd move back there in a heartbeat if I could!

I'm completely invisible around other lesbians, too. Even if there were more femme/lipstick lesbians around, I'd still feel alienated as most of them are a trillion times more attractive than me. I can't even wear makeup unless I special order a hypoallergenic kind off of eBay that is crazy expensive. Plus, most feminine lesbians don't listen to the same music as I do, watch anime, or play videogames. Another queer woman who can paint my nails and is willing to battle me on SSB; is that too much to ask? :tears:

I have a lot of internalized homophobia, too. Please don't give up on life. You're far too sweet and awesome. I've been through the suicidal rollercoaster many times, and I hate to see you go through the same thing. If you need someone to talk too, I'm here. I don't go on here as often as I used to because I have to use my mom's phone now, but I'll still get on here as often as I can. Please don't give up. (*hug*)

 

Men can be REALLY annoying, I have never understood guys my age even though I currently am one. They all just run around yelling random shit about how their penis is bigger then everyone else's, it drives me insane!

 

Yes, I'm a guy. Yes, I'm trying to help you.
No, I am not attracted to you so I will NOT hit on you.
Well, you are lesbian, so you really should just say "Fuck off" to the pigs that hit on you, or just do the "No thanks" walk away from them. ._. You shouldn't just give up because drunken rats are hitting on you, try to go to places that don't have those people.
I really hope this helps you. Have a nice life~
I mean it.

 

This is how I feel right now , I felt so bad I almost wanted to take a scissor and chop all my hair off . Why do we have to be disrespected why am I reduced lower than human ,and to a sex toy . All I ask is for respect ,and for them to treat me like a person .:tears:

I'm tired of men telling me I need the right man I'm tried of them telling me I need a good fuck, and I should let them fuck me . I'm tried of them touching me inappropriately .
I'm tired of them telling me I'm going to hell for being a lesbian, and I need to be straight and now my love is a sin I'm sick of it .

How can you call someone you're friends when they say these things about you ?. when they try to get you drunk in order to rape when you tell them for the 100th time you don't want to be alone with them and you don't drink .
I'm sick of it I get they think lesbian porn is hot fine ,but when I tell you I'm not interested don't think because I'm a lesbian means you need to show me how great cock is I don't like it end of story and no means no . My sexuality doesn't give men a pass to harass me and specially men who are suppose to be my friends .:tears:

I'm sick of this s:***: .

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I would have played video games with you but I'm too old for you . :icon_sad:

 

Nah unfortunately I'm single. I liked someone a while back but it didn't work out sadly

 

God I fucking hate men sometimes. Men are such assholes. Most of us are cool, but the bad ones ruin everything. I don't understand why men can't just respect women. It's revolting they way they treat girls and it makes me ashamed to be assosciated with them.

I feel you need :/ Nobody knows I'm gay either unless I tell them. I'm not a bear, but I'm not a femme queen either. It's hard knowing that potential partners wouldn't even know that they had a chance with you. I want somebody to cuddle with too Just stay strong. The right girl will come along someday and she'll make everything better.

Have you considered wearing some LGBT themed jewelry like a huge rainbow bracelet or something? That might make it more obvious. Hang in there

 

As I don't think I can say anything more than what other said I will just say I am shocked and saddened great deal by seeing a post like this by a strong woman like you.

Life can be bitch.. not by itself but made by others mostly. There are people who you can swear by God that they are just animated garbage piles spew their dirt everywhere. However there are people, good people, who loves/will love you for who you are... people who see another people when they look at you.

Never loose faith, in yourself, in goodness and in life.

I wish I could hug you... everyone of you young ladies/lads and say "It will pass, life worth living" instead I am passing those idiotic hug smileys to hope they would make you feel a bit better.

Here take one... no two... there are plenty of them. (*hug*) (*hug*)

 

I cannot apologise for those guys. The 30 & 40 year olds were not looking at you because you were lesbians or because you were women, but because they are perverts! Some of them deserve to be locked up. :tantrum:
What is it with the men in homophobic areas, they seem to accept that being a misogynistic pervert is ok?
One word of hope! there are some nice guys out there that will respect you, some of them are even straight

(*hug*)

 

Please stay! You look too much like Phryne Fisher!

 

Everyone has a reason in the world. You just need to find yours. I'm glad your still alive because you are one of my new friends. Your kind, caring and loverball. If you need to talk send me a private message.

(*hug*)for my friend. Love you :icon_bigg