I'm in a difficult situation and I need some advice! I'm going to try to keep this as short as possible but it may get long so bear with me. I met this guy through work and at first had no interest. I actually thought he was plain stupid...but as time went on, and we became closer, I sort of fell for him...hard. He is the type of person tat everyone loves. Basically the life of the party. Sadly tho he is spoiled from being an only child, super into himself, and can be a huge dick. The reason I am posting on here is becuase I am just not sure if he secretly into me (gay/bi) or straight. So please voice your opinion A couple months after getting closer with him, we started sending sexual pictures over snapchat. It sucked tho becuase we would just laugh about it and act like it was a joke. He even told me one time not to tell this other worker I was close too becuase they would think we were gay. Eventually that simmered down and we started hanging out everyday. usually alone. During our time together he constantly makes gay jokes. For example...U are so gay and everyone knows. Or, how gay are you on a scale from one to ten? he also is constantly changing lyrics in songs talking about me sucking his dick and so on...i know alot of guys joke about that shit but i don't even defend myself. I just laugh and let him go at it. One time when we were hanging out alone, and he told me someone at work had said I like to jack Off with other guys while watching porn. Of course I got nervous and had some dumb ass response. Just recently we started haning out at my place more, and for the majority of the time we wrestle (him ending on top of me by the end) he also messes with his pants and basically shows me his junk while saying it's sore becuase of this or that. in my opinion he is at least bi curious, but certain things happen that make me think twice. He ALWAYS is talking about girls or looking them up on Facebook and friending them to show me or his other guy friends how hot of a girl he can get. He also says how much he does with all these girls but when it comes down to it he ends up not wanting to see them and Hangs out with me. He treats woman like they have no importance in life other than sex... The one thing that annoys me the most is when we aren't hanging out he makes sure I'm not with anyone else, and if I am, he acts like he wants to come over but than never shows up. (Which doesn't happen a ton becuase we are usually together on my time off) Also, If he wants to hang out and I can't or it'll be an hour or so before i can, he gets upset saying I'm on my own time and I don't care or want to be with him. And to be honest he sometimes acts like we never do any of this shit...and that is what confuses me the most. So what do you guys think? Am I just a dumb guy that has been in the closet so long that I'm looking for anything? Or am I Halfway sane for believing he might have feelings for me? To sum things up this has been going on for a total of a year now and i am tired of wanting more out of this and thinking there might be a chance.
