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Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by who am I, May 13, 2007.

  1. who am I

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    Is it possible not to have sex with in a life time
     
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    Well some do but it is next to impossible especially after you fall in love with someone.
     
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    ...It depends

    I mean if I was a porno star then I don't think I could avoid sex...blah blah blah what a quiddity.

    Anyways, my answer to your question is YES.
     
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    If you never meet the right person and decide not to go with just anyone then yes, a lifetime with no sex is possible. I wouldn't think it is desirable though.

    I believe members of some religious orders such as nuns and monks are required to abstain, but I don't really know about this.
     
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    Last night I kinda had the same question too. Can a man live without sex for the rest of his life?
    And I think YES, because there are people out there who dont like sex, or cant have sex (blah blah blah).
    As I know some people love their lovers too much that they dont want to have sex, but it can only last not for a long time

    As I learned in my World History class, they dont have to abstain, but they always have to keep in their minds that sex is something they will do the least. Because they think that sex wont bring happiness, it is one cause of sorrow
     
  6. I think its possible to go without sex for all your life. Im on a 16 year streak so far and i think i could make it :wink:
     
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    I would say it's possible, yes. You'd have to ask yourself why though, and whether or not you will be happy with that situation or decision - or resentful... So it is possible, but it is also important that you be happy with the way you're living your life. If those two things go hand in hand, then by all means.
     
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    it seems to me as though i am never going to have sex...but then again, i am just a "kid"
     
  9. Well Ive made a conscious decision not to. But yes Half-Light you are young so dont worry :wink:
     
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    im really still a kid 16yo but i hope to have sex one day. when ive had sleep overs at a couple of mates places we have played around in bed but never really had any sex
     
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    I wouldn't call 16 a "kid", but you are still young. You have a lot of time ahead of you - the whole of the rest of your lifetime. Compared to perhaps 3 years that you have been physically able to have sex. So don't worry about no sex yet!

    If you want it, give it time and it'll happen. :thumbsup:
     
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    In the name of god don't worry half life - you're 14 and have ages to go. In most places its illeagal to have sex to 14,16 or 18 anyway. I am unfortunetly under the same curse and i'm 19.
     
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    There are actually entire communties that do not have sex, by choice: asexuals. There are three types of asexual: people who experience no sexual attraction, people who experience no romantic attraction, and people who do not experience sexual OR romantic attraction. Of course, either of the former are still associated with an orientation...

    So, I would have to say that YES, people can live without sex, and alot (well, not ALOT, but a fair number) of people do.

    http://www.asexuality.org/home/ If you are interested...