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Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Nixon, Oct 19, 2008.

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  1. Nixon

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    I have a problem
    After Gym we have to take showers
    Lately I've been getting a stiffy
    How would I discretely get it down
    I've tried repeating stuff but it's not working
     
  2. Pepsi

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    Maybe you could just like close your eyes and think of something different while you shower
     
  3. Myke

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    try to keep your mind off it. Think about what you're going to do after school, what assignments or test you have coming up or the weekend and what you're going to do. If you start to get a boner, think of something gross.
     
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    Try thinking of an old lady naked :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    i wish i was as lucky as you, getting to look at all those men naked! But recite the pledge of allegene in your head(i got it off of "bubble boy") that is if you live in the US. Hope this helped!
     
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    Think of the embarrassment to ensue if you do get a boner in the locker room showers in front of other guys. That nervousness is often enough to make my mind turn away any thoughts about the guys I see naked in that sort of setting.
     
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    Dead puppies dead puppies dead puppies dead puppies
     
  8. Andrew1403

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    try taking a cold shower...will probably help stop your erection... :icon_bigg i was somewhat similar to your situation...i went to a catholic all guys school...and after school i had football...and after football practice i would go take a shower...and we had a big shower room cause this was an older type style school...that had three shower rooms...that were connected by a hallway...but each shower room was all open and had like 20 shower heads in each...so everyone was visable to everyone...

    anyway...i never would get wood while in the shower....just kinda keep to yourself and get your stuff done...cause most of the guys are just as scared as you...even the straight ones...some straight guys are more confident with themselves and would talk with other guys whle showering naked next too or in plain view of them...(weird that they were straight boys)...anyways...try a cold shower...that may help...most guys just keep their eyes to themselves anyways...you should be fine...dont worry so much!:slight_smile:
     
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    Going to the toilet can help a lot.
     
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    Think about something else and get it off your mind. Turn away so you don't look at anyone else. Hope this helps.
     
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    Two girls, one cup.
    Two girls, one cup!
     
  12. Myke

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    that might spark something else coming up
     
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    Don't worry about it.

    Everybody else in the shower is so worried about other guys looking at THEM, that they don't bother looking at you.
    If somebody DOES look over and see you, he's going to be too embarrassed to say anything.
    If that somebody DOES say something, just look down at it distractedly, shrug and say, "Looks like it's working OK." Then glance over at his and say, "So what's wrong with yours?"

    Lex
     
  14. otc877

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    Nononono

    Live puppies being mashed into a blender.

    Always works for me.
     
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    ^ better yet How do you get a baby out of a blender..........TOSTITOS!!!! LQTM
     
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    Think about famine, disease and pestalence! That's what Bree from Desperative Housewives reccomended. lol, but seriously think of the biggest turn-off you can
     
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    That's so weird, because I had the same exact question. I agree, cold shower, and maybe close your eyes, think of dead puppies, old wrinkly women

    OH! in the slight chance anyone DID say anything. Just say you're thinking about girls!!! AHA!!!!
     
  18. MOS KONIG

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    My brother uses the same technique. "Dead Puppies, Dead Puppies, Dead Puppies."
     
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    how do you make a baby float? take your foot off its head hahah
    or how do you find an alive baby in a pile of dead babies. with a pitch fork.
    ha and this one is weird. How did an alive baby get out the pile of dead babies. Ate his way out. :]

    sorry though im a girl and we dont get boners. but when ever im excited at a bad time i just think of the ugliest person i know.
     
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    hmm cold showers don't help me... they make it worse :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:

    anyway i stay away from pe as much as possible so I never had the shower problem lol

    sorry I can't help. Maybe look up sick jokes llike the ones above? (dead baby etc sorry they're real nasty but kinda funny)

    I need to stop starting all my posts with hmm
     
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