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Would Come Out if There was any chance of acceptance.

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by LiamP, Jan 9, 2015.

  1. LiamP

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    I'm the type to assess the risks before I take them. So I'm more comfortable within the closet when I know peeping through the crack is safer than being out there and rejected.

    ---------- Post added 9th Jan 2015 at 08:21 PM ----------

    Its more of a Not-today but maybe Someday situation....in the very far away future.
     
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    I totally get this as I've personally done the same in my own life. I was raised in a LGBT intolerant family and seeing as how my mother does not agree with being gay at all, I don't see the point in coming out when I know what the outcome will be, and it will be negative. And I'm not ready to deal with that yet. Though I do plan on coming out to everyone, it just won't be any time soon.

    So I say take your time, when you decide to come out, let it be because of your personal decision and not because of outside sources pressuring you. :slight_smile:
     
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    I'm glad there's someone else who gets it when I'm good and ready they'll know.