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Touch and Feel

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by rocking23, Oct 25, 2008.

  1. rocking23

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    Last night I was at a friends house and my hot, (sadly) straight friend was with the four of us.
    So anyways, the room was dark and he was sitting next to me while I was flirting shamelessly. One thing led to another and I began to tickel his abs, he never thought I would do it, but I did. Then I got him to let me run my hand on his abs, but I didn't really just go for it, not being open and all. Joking the entire time, he grabbed my wrist and ran my hand from his pecs, down and over his abs. I didn't pull away. Him still joking, he began to put my hands down his pants, only then did I pull away.

    With this post I wanted to share but also get some help on why I pulled away when I know I'm gay...

    And just to add, it was F*CKING HOT AS HELL!!

    After wards it wasn't awkward at all, we just joked around for the rest of the night. I kinda feel like our friendship got better.
     
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    All I can say is that I think this will make coming out to him awkward as anything...
     
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    I sorta have done the same thing before, though I haven't got into a situation where it went as far as it did for you.

    For me it's not that I'm not enjoying it (same for you, it seems.) It's just that it gets really scary at that point. My mind just thinks "When I come out to him, he's going to remember this and realize I must have been turned on, and he'll be creeped out." Because of this, I pull away too.
     
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    Sounds hot. Lol
    But yeah.. things might be a little awkward when you come out to him.
     
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    I think you pulled away because it was so surprising that it was your best straight friend that was doing this and you weren't sure how to react.Maybe you didn't want things to be really awkward the next time you saw each other.
     
  6. Myke

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    sounds hot! You were probably scared that he might think you were enjoying it too much and afraid that he would figure out you're gay.
     
  7. rocking23

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    Starshine, your post makes a lot of sense
    Myke, I think he already thinks I'm gay, 1. I kept asking to touch his abs and I was also plying with his hair :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes: 2. I was flirting like crazy 3. I'm not too good at hiding it :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:

    Thanks for all the replies
     
  8. Myke

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    If he does think you`re gay and hes letting you touch him then he might be trying to say something :wink: but i dont know i might be reading this the wrong way
     
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    it would be cool if he was saying something!!
    But I don't think he was, he's strighter than an iron rod :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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  10. Myke

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    Do you know this for a fact? he could be curious... I would experiment more with this, see how far it will go. You never know, he could be willing to do more things, as long as your comfortable will it
     
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    yeah I agree with that
     
  12. Myke

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    Good luck bud! I'm jealous haha
     
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    thanks
    Not to run it in even more but, it was so hot it's hard to describe :slight_smile:
     
  14. Myke

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    I bet :eusa_droo
     
  15. krazykyle

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    i would've continued. i'm disappointed in you.
     
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  16. rocking23

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    hahaha
    I agree
    I kinda regret not going on
    I won't have another shot till we have our semi-planned sleepover.
     
  17. Myke

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    keep us updated though!!
     
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    I would've totally gone for it.
    and see how far he went. especially if nobody else could see. it would be just between you and him. I think he wants you to fool around with him.

    I've had PLENTY of straight guys.
    For a while, i couldn't get a good gay guy. ;x
     
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    Nothing like that ever happens to me :frowning2:

    I just get girls being needy and telling me they love me, and I dont know how to tell them that I dont like them like that and I never will.

    Guys that live in my rown would be afraid that people would find out and it would be social suicide.

    I dont know what I would do in that situation, I think I would be really turned on then pull away if I saw that he was getting turned on. I would not know what to do or say in that situation. Maybe you should have put his hand on your abs, just to see what he would do. You never know, that might be what he wanted you to do :wink: