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Have you ever came out during the daytime?

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Andrew99, Jan 20, 2015.

  1. Andrew99

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    I know it's a weird question but I was wondering have you ever came out during the day time? Me I've only came out at night time.
     
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    Yes, I have done most of my come outs during the day as opposed to the night. My bigger ones were during the day.
     
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    Yes, in fact I don't remember coming out at nighttime.
     
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    Parents was day, siblings at night, friends and coworkers were both day & night.
     
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    Only daytime
     
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    Of course not, because...


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    C'mon, guys! The title of this thread was perfect for a vampire joke!


    But seriously, I've only come out to two people directly. Both of them were in the evening, but that is just because it worked out like that. Had either conversation been the same, but started earlier, it could have just as easily been the daytime.

    Now, it's harder to say when it comes to indirectly. I've made certain remarks and show particular knowledge in some fields where, if somebody actually thought about it, they'd have an inkling of an idea. These come at all times, day or night.
     
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    Ok I know this is off topic but this is my 100th thread yay! (!) (!) (!) (!) anyway keep posting!
     
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    Out.. of the closet? I don't think I ever paid attention as to what time of the day it was when I told people I like girls.. hmmm...

    So I guess so? I'm kind of out by default. My ex gf and I worked at the same place for 3 years.
     
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    I have come out at all times.

    Do what ever feels good to you. If you want to come out at night it's okay.
     
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    actually,it's only been during the day time. never really thought about it.
     
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    I had planned to one day while on vacation. (Not a great idea I know.)
    Didn't end up happening till a couple months later one night, I just couldn't hold it in any longer.
     
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    At sleepovers, I always get into really deep conversations with my friends, it seems that it's easier to say stuff at night sometimes. But I mostly come out during the day cuz that's when I see most people... :slight_smile:
     
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    To most during the day and only one at night!
    It just goes to show that gays are not like vampires, vampires only come out at night gays come out at any time and in the most unexpected ways!
     
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    1 out of 5 come outs were at daylight, and just because she brought it up.
    Huh, never noticed, but i guess im more confident coming out at night.
     
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    It does seem like night is the appropriate time to tell secrets and make confessions :slight_smile: I did tell my dad during the day tho, because he's never home at night and my mom wasn't around at the time.
     
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    Mine have been a pretty good mix so far.. My sister and two of my friends found out in like the middle of the night. My two other friends, however, were in the middle of the day. My mom was more in the evening.. For me it really just depends on the situation.
     
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    i have come out at any time of day or night to people. it doesn't matter to me
     
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    Well. I've done daytime. But most people heard it from me at night.
     
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    I've had one of each so far, even though the first one (the one during daytime) wasn't a "proper" coming out because my friend told me "I don't think I like guys at all" and I just went "yeah, me too".
     
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    Yeah. Only once at night so far. Hoping to change that this week :slight_smile: