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Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by sam bob, Oct 30, 2008.

  1. sam bob

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    Im a little worried because im 15 years old but ive never had a boyfriend or kissed a boy because there are no gay people where I live
     
  2. Why are you worried? I'm also fifteen, also never had a boyfriend, also never kissed a boy.
     
  3. JT

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    I'm 17, never had a boyfriend, never kissed a boy. I know a few gay people in my area. What's there to fret about? You have a lot of time.
     
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    >>>Im a little worried because im 15 years old but ive never had a boyfriend or kissed a boy because there are no gay people where I live

    Then spend your time studying and getting ready to go to a college (or get a job straight out of school) away from where you live. :slight_smile:

    Lex
     
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    I'm 17 and I've done nothing. I like a guy, but I don't think he's gay. All the gay or bi guys I know aren't appealing to me. Sometimes I feel down about it, but then I realize I'm only 17... and then I refocus my priorities to getting into a good education so I can make a good life with someone. I figure who I kiss when I'm 17 won't matter when I'm 27, but what I do with school will.
     
  6. sam bob

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    kk, thanks for the advice, suppose your right ive got all my life ahead of me thanks
     
  7. Miles D

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    :grin: I'm 16 and had my first kiss a month ago! and my first girlfriend...
    it's totally fine and normal!
     
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    Lots of straight people don't get boyfriends/girlfriends or have their first kiss till even later than 15, so relax - you've got your whole life ahead of you.
     
  9. Pepsi

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    I'm 16 there are a lot of gay guys here and I never kissed anyone, don't worry you have nothing to worry about.