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Haven't completely came out to my friend?

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by HiAndBi, Jan 29, 2015.

  1. HiAndBi

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    I do theatre, and tonight I finally braved the courage to ask my best friend (when we were a bit younger) what she thought of gay/lesbian. When everyone was leaving the theater, I called her name and I bit my lip when she came over. Lol.

    ME: Um...remember when we were younger, and you said the weirdest thing in the world was girls who like girls, and boys who like boys?
    FRIEND: *nods* Mm-hm.
    ME: Well...do you still think that?

    I held my breath and sighed as she said "no".
    "Thank goodness!" I said XD

    Sooooo...I didn't exactly come out to her, but I'm kind of worried she thinks I'm lesbian. Or even have a crush on her :confused:
    Even though we don't talk often now, we were best friends a few years ago. I'm sure I can trust her, and I want her to be the first person I come out to.
    She's a tomboy, if that matters.
    How should I tell her I'm bi?
    Help please :slight_smile:
     
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    'How'? Well, you just have to pick a good time, get a hold of yourself if you're nervous, and say it.

    I can give you a hug, if you think that would help. (*hug*)
     
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    Thanks...I <3 hugs (*hug*)
    I'll have to write down what I'll say and rehearse XD
     
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    UPDATE: I realized I have feelings for my friend...I think what I'll do is explain the situation to her best friend, Laurel, and have Laurel tell her. I trust her.