Wanting to Come Out but Afraid Family and Friends will Not Accept

Hello, sticky situation here:

I am 16 years old and living at home with my family. I have accepted myself as gay for a year now. I want to come out to my family, but it's more complex for me than just 'coming out':

My mom thinks that homosexuality is a sin.
My dad thinks that homosexuality is a trend, a sin, and is disgusting.
I am living with four siblings who totally agree with both of my parents, one of whom I know would try to 'cleanse me' of some 'evil' that he thinks I posess.
I'd say at least 90% of the people at my school think that being gay is wrong.
And most of the community that I'm associated with is against homosexuality.

So there's all this pressure to stay closeted from almost everyone around me.
I must say, I have great friends, but coming out, I will have to lose most of them since they are too tied to what the people of the church have to say to accept me.

What's more, I rely on my family for moral support, and I might not have that if I come out to them. Knowing them, they would first freak out, then be disappointed in me, and finally not know what to do. We are all very close and at peace right now, and I will most definitely loose a lot of that closeness and strongly disrupt part of our relationships if I come out.

Our lives are already busy and complicated enough. I don't want to add more stress to all of us, but at the same time, I can't hide any longer.

I was thinking that I should try to sneak my way, against odds, to my local resource center so that I at least know some nearby people who won't dis me for telling the truth about myself.

I am in a funky pickle right now and am running low on time.