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Got Beat up!

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Trent13, Nov 3, 2008.

  1. Trent13

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    Alright so today me and Taneka went down to the river for a swim, there was some other kids down there. Taneka knew them and told me that we should be okay. So they where fine for a little bit, then they came over. They where mucking around with her. One of the two pissed in a empty bottle and was trying to pour in on her.

    after a long time they left. about 10 to 15 mins later they came back with another person, i told Taneka that we should leave, where where grabbing our stuff when the new guy started one me. He was asking what i did to his cuzin, we wanted to fight. I didn't. So we tried to leave but he kept pushing me and asking when i had done nothing.

    He punched me in the face. and again
    And again.
    She got our stuff, i got up the hill, she started punching me again, she called the police, i knew they would not get here in time.

    So i ran, i ran up to a house and stayed there until they went the other way, i went out the front to see where she was i called her other, one of the people gave us a ride back to her place.
    The cops showed up after driving right past the place, they asked all this stuff. they gave me a ride home and took photos and stuff.

    and now it hurts like hell.!!!:dry:
     
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    Aww (*hug*)
     
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    I'm really sorry to hear that! I hope you're doing okay
     
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    I'm sorry. :frowning2: I hope you are okay and feel better soon.

    Its good to remember to always trust your intuition. If you feel like the situation you are in isn't safe, then its time to go some place where you do feel comfortable.
     
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    Wow apparently Corey almost got beaten up right on Campus. But a member of Brock Pride who was working the parking meters over heard them and started to grab his walk-e-talkee.

    The guys saw this and left poor Corey alone.
     
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    mmmm
    I have a black eye and my face was all puffed up
     
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    Sorry to hear! :frowning2:
     
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    Sorry to feel that ! Hope you feel better soon! :frowning2:
     
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    Well that sucks.
     
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    OMG :/

    Either I didn't understand the story that well, or what the hell made them think to beat you up and annoy your friend...

    People these days D:
     
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    Poor fella. I hate to hear that this happened to you. I know you said that the police got involved, but please follow up with them and make sure that this scumbag gets his just due!! Report everything to them, and give them names of everybody that was either involved or around when this happened; it will make the prosecution of the offender much easier. I happen to be a school resource officer at a highschool, and one thing that makes my blood boil is when someone bullies or attacks another student. Cooperate with the police and let the justice system work. In the mean time, take care of yourself. Keep your head up, keep smiling, and I hope you get to feeling better soon! :thumbsup:
     
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    I am very sorry that this happened to you. It's good that you reported it to the police. I hope you feel better soon and that the bruises and black eye won't last too long.
     
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    Ouch, hope you feel better! If that was me, I would have sped out of their after the guy tried to pour pee on your friend. LOL
     
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    I'd hate to get beat up, but I wouldn't mind displaying my shiner to everyone so they'd think I'm tough.

    You're tough!
     
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    Geez, that sucks! You did the right thing, though, what with getting out the situation and all.

    Maybe you should hire your own personal Mr. T, so things like this don't happen again xD.
     
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    I am so sorry this happened to you!!!

    Take progress pictures of your injuries because things usually swell and bruise more later. Other injuries may not have shown in the pictures the police took.

    I hope the pain dies down soon!!
     
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    Just curious... DID you do anything to his cousin?
     
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    i'm srry this happened and i hope you get better(*hug*)

    damnit sht like this pisses me off. but you handled it nicely. if it were me i'd probably fight back which is probably not the best thing to do. but then again i'm the kind of person who wont stand for being messed with...being a black belt in judo helps a bit to:slight_smile:

    but seriously...take care. this first aide thing says:
    Although most black eye injuries aren't serious, bleeding within the eye, called a hyphema, is serious and can reduce vision and damage the cornea — the clear, protective "window" at the front of the eye. In some cases, abnormally high pressure inside the eyeball (glaucoma) also can result.

    Be sure there's no blood within the white and colored parts of the eye.
    Seek medical care immediately if you experience vision problems (double vision, blurring), severe pain, or bleeding in the eye or from the nose.

    hope u get better soon and catch those fckers who did it (*hug*)
     
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    Wow that's really too bad. It could have been a lot worse though. Sorry to hear that happened to you. No one deserves to be treated that way. Feel better soon.
     
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    Umm no.. Trust i did nothing i stayed in the back of the river while they where there!