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my gf knows I'm bisexual but she doesn't know I'm biromantic homosexual

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  1. Fallensun21372

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    My gf (who likes me sexualy) is clingy and I'm a little scared of what will happen after if i tell her im biromantic homosexual.Should I? She accepts LGBT and she's OK with me being bi but when in told her we got in a fight and she said she didn't know me anymore (over reaction???) And 2 days later everything cooled down. But tbh I think she's amazing but this relationship has become... A pain to me, the other day she said she knows I'm bi and she is OK with that but she caught me looking at cute guys and said that she doesn't wanna hold me back.what do I do I'm so confused!:eusa_liar
     
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    personally, not trying to be rude but to me it looks like she is trying to guilt you to where you will do whatever she says to keep her. that may sound like most relationships but this has happened to me the exact same way. just my look on it, sorry if you may have taken it the wrong way <3 - lily
     
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    No I totally agree just I can't say I'm breaking up with you... If she is legit about not holding me back she will let go yea?
     
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    most likely, BUT if she goes all no i want you shit afterwards then sorry bud good luck with her being all guilt trip on you :l best of luck <3 - lily
     
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    Thanks will do luckily one of the cute guys is in our 3rd period class... And than there is Christian... But I'm not here to talk about him :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    best of luck with him, (hope he is a cutie) :wink: <3
     
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    He is! I brought my sonic screwdriver go school and he literally skipped over to me... From the other side of the cafeteria... talking to his friends lol and now I. Told he's úber gay (Yessss!)
     
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    (yum) eh em ahhhhh anywayyyyyyy :wink: good luck
     
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    Thanks :slight_smile: you honestly have to be the best person I've ever met xD
     
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    i do try <3 (mmmmmmmmm still thinking) ...... XD
     
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    Lol :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes::thumbsup:
     
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    well, if you haven't told her that you are biromantic homosexual, isn't there some truth to that? if she wants to know you, then tell her. and then she can love you are not based on who you really are, not who she thinks you are.
     
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    Well hello again. i have a update... CHRISTIAN LIKES ME OMFG!!!!!! Im so happy
    i spent a lunch with him today and my gf cried, i spend every second with her and she said yesterday how she feels bad for holding me back from my friends so.... but anyway me and Christian have dis sorta thing goin on... :3
     
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    Aaaaand this is why I'm not pursuing relationships with women :/
    Cause you know, I'm GAY
    Which is going to take a while to get used to...
     
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