I've heard that by just going to a gay bar, you can find other lgbt people to hang around but I'm not like the "life of the party" type person. How do people in same sex couples even start dating outside of a bar for instance? Do i have to wear some type of clothing that suggests that I'm gay/bisexual? I'm 23 now bisexual and have never dated, not even a man, and I'm finding that I'm more attracted to the same sex then I am to the opposite, but I'm just getting depressed at the limited amount of options I feel like I have. I see other same sex couples but I can't just go up to them and ask them out of the blue where they found their spouses? On top of that, there are many lesbians who don't like girls who classify themselves as bisexual.
personaly i would just go in and if anyone says something imma be like "you got a problem with me then dont talk to me" thats just me though
You could have a look here: http://emptyclosets.com/forum/general-support-advice/168516-having-no-friends.html#5 And, well, it might be a good idea to ask where the same sex couples hang out... they might know one or two inside tips... If you are in a big city, you could look up places for gay people... and there might even be lesbian sports clubs... hugs
