well i want to come out and just say it to all but im really scared to. I live in grand forks ND and the problem here is that the community is very anti Tran, so i would assume i will get many looks and beaten and things that happen in highschool i just want to know how i can come out in a safe way cause im sick of living in fear and being pushed around enough as it is. for the past 3 years ive been pushed around by the same people year after year and im done with it. please i just want to come out, im sick of living in the closet.
Is there some one who u can talk to? Maybe a trusted friend, a close loved one, even the school counselor could help. Often, even coming out to just one person can take a lot of stress off of one's shoulders. It doesnt sound like u live in a very safe area right now. I know that it can be agonizing having to be some one who you arent but your firt priority is your health. It may be better till after u leave and then u can start coming out more once you are in a safer environment. If you think you can come out safely, then all power to you. But if not,then it would be better to wait. Good luck
already talked to the school counselor and told my gf and mom. but i still dont want to be hiding anymore. i hate it and cant stand it anymore, i just want to be me, not someone im not.
Do you have any other close friends you could tell? They might be able to provide a bigger and stronger safety net for when you do decide to come out.
Im sorry for that. At least u have ur mom. I havent mustered up the couage to tell my parents yet. Even though i know theyll be proud to have a daughter like me. Just hold on though. Keep looking toward the horizon with your eyes peeled. U never know just when or how your situation coud change.
