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just spilled my guts

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by confusedgirl, Nov 7, 2008.

  1. confusedgirl

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    HELP recently I just told my friend how I felt about her and she totally wigged out I dont know what to do. oh but thats not the bad part she's straight and I have no clue if i ruined our friendship or what can someone please give me advice on how to clean up this mess :bang::bang::bang::tears:
     
  2. Lexington

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    Well, this may be one of those "learn from experience" things, I'm afraid. About all you can do now is thank her for listening to you, tell her you understand that she's totally straight, and you're not gonna bother her with it anymore. Hopefully, she'll come to grips with it. You may need to give her some time to do that, though.

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  3. tashyyy

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    i did the same thing
    it must have been really hard for you
    but luckyily for me i didnt get a bad reaction
    people react in different ways
    she wont hate you for it
    its probably just come as a shock
    dont talk about it with her for a while
    things will sort themselves out
    <3