When do you know if you have accepted yourself as gay? I've been trying to accept it for about 2 months and haven't told anyone because I want to accept it before others start accepting me. Right now, I can tell myself I'm gay but I'm not sure if I'm actually accepting it or just saying it. So how do you know?
Have you said that you're gay to yourself in front of the mirror out loud while looking yourself in the eyes? How did you feel?