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I need hugs:(

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by hoping, Nov 12, 2008.

  1. hoping

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    OK so the guy i liked and who said he wanted me and all this he just went weird and is now not talking to me and i have tried all i can so i guess things are over before they properly began.:tears:
     
  2. ColbieMarie

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    That's a bummer. Maybe this guy just wants what he can't have. That's always my problem. Once something starts with someone I instantly am way less attracted to them. I'm sorry that this didn't work out for you.(*hug*)(*hug*)(&&&)
     
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    Oh dang... That's horrible.. But this just means that he wasn't ready for a relationship. He said it and wasn't ready to be committed. So it's a good thing (as bad as it may seem) that he isn't leading you on into something he isn't ready for.

    Don't worry man... There're still many opportunities.

    But before giving up, a few questions first:
    1. How long has he been giving you the cold shoulder?
    2. Was it very sudden?
    3. How long was it after he said that he wanted you that he started acting weird?

    4. You need a hug (that wasn't a question).

    *hugs hoping*
     
  4. I don't really know what say, but here:

    *snugglehug*
     
  5. Gerry

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    Sorry to hear that -- I don't know what else I can tell you that I haven't already. But here. (&&&) from me & Kitty.
     
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    Hugs backatcha. (*hug*) (*hug*)

    Lex
     
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    (*hug*)(*hug*)(*hug*)
     
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    (*hug*)(*hug*)(*hug*)

    I'm sorry to hear that.
     
  9. LoveIsBlind

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    I'm sorry things aren't working out with him.

    (*hug*) (*hug*) (*hug*)
     
  10. JurrBurr

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    (*hug*)

    Hope it gets better for you :wink:

    (*hug*)
     
  11. Amy

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    (*hug*) (*hug*) (*hug*) (*hug*) (*hug*) (*hug*) (*hug*) (*hug*) (*hug*) (*hug*) (*hug*) (*hug*) (*hug*) (*hug*) (*hug*) (*hug*) (*hug*) (*hug*) (*hug*) (*hug*)
     
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    (*hug*)(&&&)(*hug*)
     
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    aawww I'm sorry hun (*hug*)
     
  14. hoping

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    Thanks everyone, love you guys:kiss::kiss:(*hug*)(*hug*)(*hug*)