No matter how sure I feel about my sexuality, I always end up doubting it. That makes it impossible to come out. Especially because people can always sense that I'm unsure. When people think I'm unsure or bi they always encourage me to be with boys! I hate it. I don't want to be with them.
Don't listen to them! And I know it seems hard but only you know you the best. It's normal to be unsure, I think you should probably come out to the right people that will support you instead of telling you to be with boy, do you have friends like that? Good luck!
If you don't want to be with boys, don't be with them. be with whom you want, do what you want, and tell whomever you want, or nobody at all. It's all yours to tell or not tell. don't feel pressured one way or another. just grab onto life, and enjoy it. fill your life with people you like to be with, people you trust. you'll be fine!
The most important thing is that you're comfortable with yourself and happy. Whether or not you like boys is nobodies business anyways unless they want to ask you on a date. I know it may be weird to be influenced by other peoples reactions (the first time I ever contemplated being gay was when a boy in my class said I had a "gay voice" and I wondered if maybe I was), but these people are normally bad influences (that guy is a jerk btw). What truly matters is that you're safe, happy, and healthy. At the end of the day it doesn't matter what other people think because as long as you go to bed with a smile on your face you can conquer the world. Answers come with time, patience may be the key. <3 good luck darling.
