I identify as queer right now. I would rather identify as gay to make things simpler, but I constantly doubt my orientation. I'm not out to people in real life, I mostly talk to people people online. Whenever I say I'm queer or not straight people always seem to ask me to be more specific. That really pisses me off. I can't answer those questions. If I could I would pick a more common label to make my life easier. I don't want people to think I'm confused. When people think I'm confused they always push me to be straight. The idea of being straight is disgusting to me right now. I sometimes have to scream because I'm just so mad that everyone is pushing me to be straight.
you've just said it pretty well. tell them the same thing. if they don't know what queer means, they can look it up on the internet!
