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I'm not exactly sure about my sexuality....

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by nookling, Mar 30, 2015.

  1. nookling

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    Ok, so recently I have been questioning if I really do like girls, or not? I haven't been in a relationship with anyone and I just don't feel attracted to girls much anymore....

    So, I am trying to figure out (no rush) if I am gay or not? Or maybe something else? Any advice on this?
     
  2. Kenaria

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    I wouldn't stress too much! Just love whomever you love and no one can judge you for it.
    As for figuring it out, I have no idea... gay porn is how most people figure it out, but if you have the possibility to go on dates or something of the sort you could try that too!
     
  3. HiAndBi

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    How would you describe "like"?
    There is sexuality and romanticity. I thought I was bisexual and heteroromantic, but I'm actually bisexual/biromantic.

    Sexuality = Who you are sexually attracted to
    Not to be vulgar but...
    Example: I like breasts and penises.
    I am sorry, lol.

    Romanticity: Who you are romantically attracted to
    If I were homosexual (lesbian/gay)/biromantic...
    Example: I love [boy], but I could never have sex with him.

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    Also, don't stress about labels! I myself tend to use them often, though - I'm a very organized+categorized person.