Well some people come out in a letter... some people come out in a talk... there are sample letters for example... Some people say its not a choice... and they remain the same person, with the same sense of humour etc... Well would you mind giving a bit more information ?
- Don't tell them if a family crisis is transpiring (death, drama, etc) - Tell one person at a time, exception if only your parents (you still may want to do one at a time then too, though) - If you can't say it, write it. (A letter is a great idea) - Explain that it isn't their fault, or anyone's - Give them time to accept who you are, it may take a while That's all I can think of for now. If you can tell us a little bit about whoever you're coming out to, that would help