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Advice

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by mattydawgzzz, Apr 5, 2015.

  1. mattydawgzzz

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    Can someone lend some advice for coming out?
     
  2. jay777

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    Well some people come out in a letter... some people come out in a talk...
    there are sample letters for example...

    Some people say its not a choice... and they remain the same person, with the same sense of humour etc...

    Well would you mind giving a bit more information ?
     
  3. absvrdity

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    - Don't tell them if a family crisis is transpiring (death, drama, etc)
    - Tell one person at a time, exception if only your parents (you still may want to do one at a time then too, though)
    - If you can't say it, write it. (A letter is a great idea)
    - Explain that it isn't their fault, or anyone's
    - Give them time to accept who you are, it may take a while

    That's all I can think of for now. If you can tell us a little bit about whoever you're coming out to, that would help :slight_smile: