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Sister does not admit she's lesbian

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Nerazim, Apr 9, 2015.

  1. Nerazim

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    My eldest sister is a mad Lesbian and child minded.She does not admit that she's lesbian even though she is not.Although im homosexual i don't like girly stuff(ex: pink,bra's,panties) and i only like straight things.She always use my clothes without permission and she is always mad at me and i hate her.I noticed she was lesbian a long time ago when i watched her old photos and the fact that she don't like to wear girly stuff too.First i thought it was just me but when i found out more about her i researched more.She's secretive,liar and a thief(she always steal from my parents money).In twitter,facebook,tumblr,ask.fm,instagram and others she always stalked a guy and uses a different name to attract other girls and her english is bad.Also she stalks other girls and watches lesbian porn which is annoying because she doesn't know how to hide it anyway because she always forgot how to go to incognito and the fact that she downloads the videos she does not remove it only i can find were she puts it(ex on folder Downloads).Also my other sister knew that she was lesbian because she told me a lot and they always fight because she hate her to:confused:ne time when i was using the computer she told me that she wanted to use the computer for an important matter like she wants to download a movie which is a dumb answer and i said no and she directly punched my faced and i said a lot of words at her and she threaten me but i just don't care and i know she was going to stalk the guy he pretends too or watch porn.She always hangs out on Lesbians and Bisexuals and still doesn't admit that she's not.I don't hate lesbians i just hate her for being a psycho at me.Her personality is dangerous even to her partner.They always fight and i observed it and its always her fault because of her childish personality.I don't want to ask her or help her anyway.
     
  2. jay777

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    Well you might think about corresponding and dealing with each other in a different way...
    if you state your opinion without getting upset it might help...
    and you might simply talk... if possible in a nice way...
    you might think about a compromise.... if she wants to use the pc you might suggest she waits half an hour, and finish until then...
    its like you need to be right, and she needs to be right, and there is a struggle....
    if you give each other space it might help...
    and you might really try to talk... not in a reproachful but understanding and open way...
    like you see a few things she does as childish... you might tell her that a few things she does appear for you a certain way... and she might answer why she behaves that way...
    it its not done if you fight, but try to understand each other...


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