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Advice?

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by LevendarStar, Apr 19, 2015.

  1. LevendarStar

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    well, hey people
    i am new here

    i think i am 99% gay but i am not sure
    i am not sure what i will feel being with a guy or a girl
    it's so confusing
    but i always feel attraction for guys only :confused:

    is there anyone who felt like me?
    i am so unsure and noone knows about it so Ummm help me?
    thanks
     
  2. Kyro

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    If you only feel attraction to guys then i'd say you are probably gay. But if you feel like you want to see what it's like to be with women that's okay too. Sexuality can be hard to figure out, but I think it's best just to test the waters in relationships to see what you like!
     
  3. Yossarian

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    If you think you are 99% gay then you probably are. You have not filled in the age field so we don't know how old you are, or what would be an appropriate venue to suggest for you to meet other gay guys. You need to explore the field of guys your own age and see how it feels to you. You should know if it feels right or not.
     
  4. PatrickUK

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    If you think you are 99% gay that makes you more gay than some openly gay men. Heck, it probably makes you more gay than me. :slight_smile:

    Fact is, very few people can honestly say they are 100% gay or straight. I'm sure many of us get very close and really, that's good enough.

    For most of us, it's a case of following our instincts. If you have strong feelings of attraction towards other guys, if you are drawn to their bodies and bulges and like masculinity it's really a case of paying attention to what your heart and mind is telling you. If you don't get that same vibe for women, then you are, in all probability gay.