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How would you feel?

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by purplecats, Apr 20, 2015.

  1. purplecats

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    Hi everyone! So a few months ago I came out to my best friend. She told me she didn't really care and everything was good. When I see her now things are kind of awkward though and we just ignore the fact that I came out to her. Her younger sister is someone who I also consider a friend. Her sister is also very vocal about her support of the LGBT community. I think she would be a great person to come out to and I think I could actually talk to her about things. I don't really want to tell my best friend that I'm going to come out to her sister, I think it would just make things uncomfortable. I'm afraid when she finds out I told her sister she'll be mad though. I feel like she'll think I'm going behind her back. So I was just wondering if any of yall have been in the same situation and how you would feel about it if you were my best friend.
     
  2. Gymskirtboy

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    Hi,
    I'm struggling with coming out to friends at the moment. Its tearing me apart how to do it without ending up with no friends at all. I suppose you could look at it like a friend who wont accept your gay is not really a friend at all. But its hard fro some people, you have to consider how they were brought up. Society has always looked on us a weirdos and freaks.

    (Love your avatar by the way!!!!)
    Jim