Today was really unexpected. I was overthinking ALOT in my German class and started having a panic attack so I realised that it was time to tell them. So.... I did. I showed them this video: https://youtu.be/z3ECU6xtp68 I think they're alright about it but of course, it must have been a shock! Im worried that they now think less of me because of it. The next step.... the next step is to tell my boyfriend. I have concluded that I completely muddled up my feelings for him and only like him as a friend, but I don't know how to tell him :/ Im thinking about writing a letter because I just can't face him. After that, my family. I will prpably show them the same video but I'm worried that they'll think that its just a phase. I mean, I am too... I do feel attracked to boys, but not sexually. They can be hot etc but I feel sexually attracted to girls ect. please tell me your experiences with these thing to help me.
I can't say much, because I'm just out to my best friend but still I have advices, because telling to my best friend wasn't the easiest trick... I've thought too that what if this is just a phase (liking girls) but then I find out that I'm bi/pansexual so I don't care if you're male, female, trans etc... Well, if you just don't feel right with your boyfriend then just leave him a message, note etc. or just go and tell it face to face. It'll be a big reveal to you. I don't know what your boyfriend then thinks about it. If you're not ready yet just take your time. Tell it when you're ready. So leave a note or tell it straight to him.There's no other way to do it.
