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Best way to come out?

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Jediknight36, May 5, 2015.

  1. Jediknight36

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    Hey everyone. So Im still coming to terms that I am, indeed, not a man, but I am genderfluid/agender. Im still struggling with this, but I have come out to 3 people so far. I have started an open letter that eventually will send out to folks explaining whats going on with me and why. But I dont know if thats the/RIGHT/ way. What I mean by that is, is there a "better" way to do things? I dont have actual contact with most people I know who would receive this, unless I took time and called. And for a few people, I still might. But is there generally a right way and a wrong way to do this? Am I over thinking it?

    Also, I dont know if it would even be helpful, but maybe I coudl post the letter and see if it need more detail or if it even makes sense? I kind of threw up words on a page, and normally Im a good writer but Im not sure if this even makes sense to the average person.

    Maybe Im over thinking everything.
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  2. Invidia

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    I's always good to have a strategy. But yes, you might be overthinking things a bit :slight_smile:
    I came out first to my class, via facebook. Then I came out to the rest face-to-face.
    Try your best ^^ hugs <3
     
  3. Foxfeather

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    Letter is good. Type it up if you wanna mass-print and send it out.