Hey. So I need a little bit of help. Basically, I suck at flirting. I try really hard, but no one can ever tell, so I just end up becoming friends with them. After a long time, I really want to tell them I like them, but by that point we're such good friends that I would never risk the friendship by telling them I like them. I have a crush right now, and I'm doing the same thing. He's an amazing person, he's also bi, and he totally accepts me for who I am. He's a huge gamer just like me etc. etc. Suffice to say, this is a serious crush. The thing is, I can easily seeing it going either way. We would make great friends, but I want him. BAD. Advice? Should I just continue what I'm doing and make another good close friend who I can rely on and whatnot, or should I go for him all out? If so, how would I go about doing that, because if I don't get some tips, We'll just end up good friends no matter what. :help:
Why don't you ask him on a date? Flirting is a much less reliable method, if you ask me. Just be open. Saying, "Do you want to go and see a movie with me some time?" is always going to be a quicker and (if you can bear it) easier method than playing the "can he notice all these hints? will he won't he" game.
i agree with Psychedelic Bookmarks. just ask him to go to the movies. i personally am no good at flirting either(that i know of) i always end up making friends with my crushes. so b4 it going in the "too good a friend" situation ask him out. lol. i need to take my own advice. lol
