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should I come out?

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by mydancerslife, May 15, 2015.

  1. mydancerslife

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    okay so I have been thinking a lot and I really want to tell my best friend I'm in to girls but I don't know if I'm bi or lesbian so I quite know how to tell her or if I should tell her at lot?
     
  2. baconpox

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    Your friend shouldn't be too obsessed with your sexuality, so if you come out as a lesbian and end up being bi, that shouldn't be too big of a deal. If you just say "I like girls" then that's not really a strong statement. Or just say you don't know if you're bi or a lesbian. If you think it would make you feel better then do.
     
  3. MetalRice

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    If you feel comfortable telling her that you like girls then do it, if aren't then don't.